Deciding to study abroad is a big and exciting step. It’s a decision that affects your whole family, so it’s completely normal if talking to your parents feels a little intimidating at first. The good news? It doesn’t have to be!
This is a multi-stage conversation that will likely take time and thoughtful discussion. In this first blog of our How to Talk to Your Parents About Studying Abroad series, we’re discussing how to start the conversation. We’ll cover the main topics to discuss, ways to involve your parents in the process, and how to show them you’re ready for this transition. Let’s dive in!
Before You Get Started
Before you talk to your parents, research your options and think through your goals. Remember, this isn’t the first big transition your family has navigated together. Think back to when you first left for college and what helped everyone feel comfortable. Many of those same strategies will work for this next journey, too.
As you begin the conversation, approach it as something you want to explore together, rather than a decision you’ve already made. Below are key topics that cover ways to involve your parents and how to show them you’re ready to study abroad.
1. Be Open and Prepared to Talk About Costs
Money is often one of the first things parents think about, so being prepared to talk through costs can make a big difference. It’s important they know you’re not planning a European shopping spree, but instead being intentional with your spending. Talking through your budgeting plan helps build trust and confidence.
2. Reassure Them About Safety and Support
Safety is one of the most common and understandable concerns for parents. One of the best ways to ease their worries is by reminding them that you won’t be navigating a new city alone. With API, support is built into every stage of the experience, including personalized pre-departure guidance, experienced on-site staff, Visited and Verified housing, medical insurance, orientation and ongoing resources, strong academics, and a built-in student community.
3. Create a Communication Plan
Let your parents know you won’t be going radio silent while you’re abroad. Just like when you first left for college, have a plan to stay in touch to make the transition easier for everyone.
Talk through how and when you’ll check in so no one is left guessing. That might look like quick daily texts, a weekly FaceTime call, or sharing photos and updates as you explore your new city. Let your parents know how they’ll stay connected to your experience, even from afar.
4. Explain Your “Why”
This is your chance to show your parents that studying abroad isn’t just exciting, it’s an investment in your future. This decision isn’t impulsive; it’s thoughtful, intentional, and future-focused. Explain the long-term value by highlighting some of the many benefits, including:
- Career & Resume Benefits
- Academic & Skill Development
- Language & Communication Skills
- Confidence & Independence
- Global Awareness & Personal Growth
Studying abroad is a big decision, so this is likely the first of many conversations. Approach it as a partnership with your parents and with us. We’re here to support you through these conversations and every step of your study abroad journey. We’ll help you navigate concerns, make informed choices, and feel confident along the way.
Keep your parents in the loop on key moments like your application, housing, departure, and arrival. Small updates reassure them and help them feel connected to your experience. Good luck with your first conversation. Next week, we will explore how to discuss costs with your parents. Stay tuned!
